I collared my slave about a year and a half ago. After the collaring, he wanted me to take more and more control and I had him move in to my place about 6 months ago. He continues to want me to take more control and I like doing so. But I feel strange treating an adult this way. Any ideas how I get past my hesitancy about treating a man the way I want to treat him but feel awkward doing so? I really just want to go for it!

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servanttrainer:

Not an unusual conundrum for a Master with a new slave. I did the same thing.  I found though all I was really doing was mistaking physical
appearances with reality. As I read and studied, I realized my slave was not what
he looks like.

Based on what you said, your slave is trying to tell you he
is not an adult man.  He does not feel
that way.  He is not motivated that
way.  Perhaps he is more motivated as a
young boy.  Perhaps more as an
animal.  Certainly, he does not see
himself as your equal, but recognizes your superiority over his inferiority.

Focus on finding his reality. Spend some time (maybe a few
months) treating him as if he were a per-pubescent male.  Change the visual cues you are receiving when
you see him.  If you have not done so
yet, remove all hair from his body that only grows on adult males.  Try putting him in ever decreasing sizes of
chastity cages so his penis reduces to the length of a child’s.  Change his clothing so it reflects more
childhood than adulthood.  Change his
hair style to a young boy’s style.   See something other than an adult male when you look at him.

Read some books on childhood development that are aimed at
9-10 year old boys.  Learn how they are motivated,
how they act, how to treat them, how to discipline them. Put this into
practice.  See how he reacts.  More importantly, see if this change in visual
cues and in your treatment of him changes your own view of him as an adult male.  

If this does not seem to work or there seems to be more, go the animal route for a few
months.  Nudity, moving on all fours,
eating out of a bowl, sleeping on the floor.
Read books on animal behavior and training.  Like above, focus on how animals are
motivated and how they react to certain actions from their trainers.  See how this works.

And perhaps you need to combine the two.  You’ll know as you come to see what he responds
to and what you respond to.  

Recognize though that your slave is trying to tell you
something.  He may not even know what it
is, but he will respond if you land on the right combination.  Change what you see and work to expose his
reality.  Give it enough time.  You have years to develop him into what you
want.  And if you try something and it
seems to work, build it into your view of him as well as how you treat him. Over
time, you will find many things which work and some that don’t.  If it works, use it.  If it doesn’t, dispose of it.

You are at a very exciting point of training and developing
a slave.  Do not worry and do not be
concerned about where the two of you may go.  Let reality and responsibility guide you.  You will rise well above him.  He will be lowered to his reality.  Enjoy it.
Become the Master you want and need to be.  Guide him to become the slave he wants and
needs to be. You have the power, you just need to learn how to exercise it. From what you said, he is begging you to.

I love this for two reasons: one, it’s well thought out advice and, two, it is a reminder that being a Master is more than barking orders; it requires the ability to think, reason, read and truly care about the person who has devoted themselves to you and it points out all Masters have a responsibility to mold and make their slave everything they can be. Thank you, servanttrainer.

I agree to this way of thinking

This slave sought to be taken off the grid, to be beaten, whipped and broken to this very extreme mindset.

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